As I Grow Older
My mother is 83 years old, and living in her own house, by herself! Up until now, she has been able to cook for herself, and does light household chores. However, we have also noticed that she starts to walk leaning on to one side, and there is a hunched on her back.
With this issue, we are worrying about her ability to live on her own, and we are concerning about her safety. These pictures below remind me of her, as I watch her growing older.
What Am I?
I didn't have to hunt for pictures, these just jump out to me while I was having a walk around my yard. Can you guess what this is? I don't know why, but it is sad to see the end of living things!
Prime of My Time
Is it beautiful? Even though it only has silky fuzz left, this one vibrant flower is still full of life, but now it has taken the back burner, and quietly living the rest of its life among colorful nature.
Losing a Bit of Myself
This fuzz ball is losing a bit of itself as you can see! It is still graceful, beautiful, and lively! Have you figured out what it is yet? You are about to find out with the next few pictures!
Letting Go Some
You see this fuzz ball everywhere you go, but how many times do you stop and really look at it and admire its beauties? As this fuzz ball get older, it produce a totally different feel and look to it.
Thinning Out
By now, you should have an idea of what this fuzz ball is! This one flower can produce a line of many more generations. Those upside down umbrellas fly away from their own root to make a new life for themselves.
Hold on to Some
One by one, the seed flies off in the wind! This beautiful thing catches my eyes by their shiny white ends. Normally, the colorful flowers are the ones that receive all the attention, but my mind is heavy with the thought of my old mother, and the dilemma of life so this series of pictures became in tune with my feelings.
I Am Still Living
Though this fuzzy ball is becoming weaker as each day comes, it is still a living thing! People's eyes are not drawn to it, and society might stop the "ooh and aah", but it is still beautiful in its very unique way.
What Were Left of Me
Very few seeds left! Growing in the middle of green grass, this left over flower is calling for my attention. It looks sad, and lonely! It looks very vulnerable, and delicate!
Empty Nest
From this angle, I can still see a head full of seeds! I love the brown color in the middle, and the white ends of seeds.
Here I Am
I haven't paid much attention to dandelions before, but these are just exceptionally beautiful to me! If you've guessed these are dandelions, you're right!
We, the children, have all grown and have our own families! We leave our mother behind! She has to tend to herself, and now she needs our help in her old age but her children are all tight up with family responsibilities, and job duties.
Life is sad, and I feel like these dandelions!
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There must be something about dandelions that appeals to our creative sides Icy lovely article lovely pics
ReplyDeleteThe story lies along the series of images. When the last few appear, I can feel the emotion.
ReplyDeleteA good one.
Sounds like you are part of the "sandwich generation" who help their elderly parents while raising their own children. How lovely that you can look at a beautiful aging flower and think of your mother.
ReplyDeletea beautiful series of pictures, showing the stages in life. with age, comes a deeper beauty, a different beauty. i can feel your concern for your aging mom, though we are busy with our lives, but we can not help but be concerned and think of them, and take care if we could. hope you have a good weekend Icy.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...I didn't have any idea at all LOL. But I love the photo of the thinning out, so magically beautiful. All the rest are excellent shots too.
ReplyDeleteBTW, good post relating to your mother. We all feel the same about them. :)
ReplyDeleteWonderful pictures to go along with a wonderful story. Dandelions are one of my favorite flowers, in any stage of life. White on top only shows a different aspect of the beauty of life.
ReplyDeleteYour words complement the story so brilliantly. Touches my heart too.
ReplyDeleteThis brings out your creative side totally. I wouldn't have thought of it like this at all. But now I can most certainly see how poignant and fitting an analogy this is. I've seen my own mother age, but sadly, she didn't get to the last parts.
ReplyDeleteBrilliant work.
it's very touching
ReplyDeleteIcy, I think this is the most touching and poignant posts I've read from you. It brought tears to me. It's beautiful, heartfelt, sad and loving. The metaphoric value with the photos is very creative. Wonderful post. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteA poignant reflection, icy. I too have an aging mother. . . and a life that is passing before my eyes. . .
ReplyDeleteThe photos beautiful. . .your words, haunting. . .
Green bokeh and beautiful nature
ReplyDeleteThis is a very touching article, BC. I'm sorry to hear about your mother. My grandmother is going through the same thing. I really enjoyed reading this.
ReplyDeleteOh but hope its not that sad for you. Coz like the dandelion, after all the white feathers have gone, yellow ones appear.
ReplyDeleteAnd btw, when we were young we used to call these "wishing feathers" and if you ever catch one you can make a wish and blow it away. It is known that the deities will gather all these and make your wish come true!
a beautiful analogy of life and dandelions, i am profoundly touched.
ReplyDeletemakes me realized how short life is and make the most of it while we still can, while we are ib bloom.when the wind of change took away the best moments of our life, there is still a reminder of how beautiful life , we and the dandelions once were.